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‘The ladies man’ approach
Believe it or not, when you want to attract more females the best way is to already have females at hand. You could probably that is an insane idea. It is not true because this could be the fastest way. By seeing other women it gives them a sensation of comfort, trust and safety. From this standpoint women are inherently attracted to other women. If any woman would be in your company then other women watching are immediately attracted to you. They will immediately believe that you can offer them one if not all three of those qualities. After all if you would see a guy with a hot chick you would say that he is a "ladies man".
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First is lessoning ALALM which means “smile big for the camera". You should never be somber, stoic or in a bad mood. Ladies like better men who are in a good mood and smile a lot. If you seem like the most agreeable and approachable guy in the room for a woman it won’t meter weather you are a waiter at a greasy spoon or if you are a Wall Street guy who just lost his shorts. Ladies men are charismatic, confident and most often the most charming guy in the room. If you try to get by with good looks alone it won’t work out .You have to be happy and funny all the time.
The qualities of a ladies man are aura, energy and his presence. You need to have them. You have to be able to walk into a retail store or restaurant as if you own the place. Also you have to come off to strangers as kind, mannered and polished person. Well if you don’t have all these abilities you better start working on them right now. The key to becoming a ladies man is being a ladies man before you actually become one.
When an actor goes out for a role he doesn’t concentrate on the aspects that he can not relate to. Do you think he gets into the director’s office with his hands in his pocket? No, that is not the case. In these moments he uses his character. He walks in pretending that he already has the part. He walks in as if he is about to audition for an Academy Award winning role. That way the director thinks he is the best solution actor for the role. Now the question is if you are the best actor for the role of lover? Are you ready to play the role of the ladies man?
The qualities of a ladies man are all of the following things in this order: gentlemanly, empathic, mannered, considerate, generous, well spoken, and well dressed and a great lover. For a woman it is very important to see all these characters listed. Top of the list for ladies man is to act like a gentleman. A ladies man must be kind to everyone even to strangers. That is so because you never know who is watching. Being empathetic means that you are compassionate, you have kindhearted and have a considerate side. All of the qualities of a ladies man are important so don’t neglect any of them.
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