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Do you know the meaning of the word stalker? This is the first thing that you shouldn’t do, never follow a girl to ask her out. Otherwise, your description may get to the local authorities for stalking. If you are going to approach a woman, do it in a gentle and nice way and not act like you are an agent for some secret service. Give her some space as if she is surrounded by a bubble. Don’t invade her bubble by rushing her and getting right in her life.
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One way to measure how much space you should keep between yourself and a female is by using the method of arm’s length. You should never be less than a handshake away with someone because than you would be to close to that person.If you want to strike out quick, than you should talk about you until she rolls her eyes. Don’t forget that women like attention. Talking about your stuff and not her stuff is not the best way to get her attention. Get her talk about her if you want to command her attention. It is not the best time in her book that she wants to be hit on when she is with her children. Anyway if you want to do it at all, wait until she puts the kids in the car. And before she gets in the car you ask her so the kids don’t hear. I would guess that harassing a female anywhere near a ladies room or worse a men’s room is rather a foolish act. You could also be called a creepy guy and that won’t do any good to your reputation. The worse thing that you could do is to approach a woman in a movie theater, dark alley or in a dark parking.
When you approach a woman remember that you will catch more flies with honey than vinegar. You won’t make a good impression by using insults and sarcastic comments. Instead you should say sweet things that make her feel great. Mostly these are fundamental basics of "common sense" for any guy who wants to conquer a woman. The most important thing to remember is that when you have doubts don’t take any action. If you will act by according to this rule you will control yourself effectively in both your approach and your ongoing success with a female. Always keep in mind that the girl you are interested in may be someone’s daughter or sister or even mother. Then ask yourself how would you prefer your mother or your sister or your daughter to be approached by men? Now you will know what she does not like so that means that you have the answer to your question. Dating is not impossible do be done right but if you do it wrong the subject dies.
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